HELLO LONDON | IMMERSIVE GAMEBOX

Hello Beautiful Souls! Another fun thing to do with friends is to play games in the city. Why not go for the immersive version at Immersive Gamebox? We had a lot of fun with all the colleagues in the office playing the Trivia Mashup.

Immersive Gamebox offers games on social adventures in a “smart” room. Each room has motion tracking, projection mapping, a touch screen, and surround sound.

Each game is about 30 minutes. There is a lot of interaction going on. There are also so many options for games to play. It is a place for fun for young and old. You can even play the immersive version of Squid Game.

 

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HELLO LONDON | THE ULTIMATE MOVING FLATS GUIDE: SOLO EDITION – PART 2

Hello Beautiful Souls! Congratulations on securing your dream flat! (If you haven’t found it yet, it will come soon! We are manifesting it!) In Part 1 of this blog post series, we covered the initial steps of moving flats solo in London. Now, in Part 2, we will delve into the last two weeks leading up to the move, ensuring a smooth transition into your new home. From cancelling bills to organizing finances and preparing for the actual move, let’s make this process stress-free and exciting.

Cancelling Bills and Transferring Services:
In the weeks before your move, it’s essential to cancel or transfer your bills and services from your current place. Contact the relevant providers for council tax, energy and gas, water, and internet, informing them of your move-out date. Make arrangements to settle any outstanding bills and ensure a seamless transition of services to your new address. Don’t forget to change the address of your bank account and subscriptions. A tip for when you are living solo, apply for a discount for council tax in your new borough. At the moment, you should get a 25% discount when you live by yourself.

Managing Finances and Deposits:
As you approach your move, be mindful of your financial responsibilities. Make sure you have enough saved to cover the first month’s rent and the security deposit, typically amounting to five weeks’ rent. Additionally, allocate funds for the actual move itself, including hiring movers and purchasing new furniture or essentials. Having financial stability during this time will alleviate stress and allow you to focus on settling into your new home.

These are roughly my costs to get a better understanding:

  • The first month’s rent is around 1000 pounds.
  • Deposit 1125 pounds. Don’t forget to leave the previous flat as well as possible, so you will get your full deposit back.
  • Moving supplies 100-200 pounds.
  • The budget for new furniture and things you need in the new flat is around 5000 pounds. Depends on your preferences. I went for furniture (bed and wardrobe) with lots of storage and reliability, like Ikea. Invest in a WFH desk if you WFH a lot like me.
  • Movers – never going back to doing it myself with a van or asking people to help. This was around 265 pounds.
  • Temporary unlimited data is 40 pounds and the dongle is 45 + 20 pounds to top up. Unfortunately, I had to spend a lot on this as I was not in charge of the internet bills and struggled with no internet at the beginning of the process to find a flat and WFH in the old flat.
  • New bills (electricity, water, council tax) are around 200 pounds.
  • Internet provider Cuckoo [30 pounds] loved that they can set you up [already] when you are waiting for the internet line to be live within two weeks. With an additional 40 pounds, you get a dongle and can WFH without an issue. Also, possibility to have a monthly subscription instead of a year. The customer service is great.
  • Task Rabbit, to build my wardrobe and the ottoman bed was around 245 pounds. They do lots of tasks that are very useful when you can’t do them yourself.

Utilizing Unlimited Mobile Data or Dongles:
During the transition period, you may experience a temporary disruption in internet service. To stay connected, consider using your mobile phone with unlimited data as a hotspot for your laptop or other devices. Alternatively, you can invest in a dongle to ensure uninterrupted internet access during this period. Having a reliable internet connection is crucial for staying connected and managing any necessary online tasks. Especially, if you work from home.

 

Celebrate and Embrace the Change:
Take a moment to celebrate your achievement! Moving flats solo in London is a significant milestone, and you should be proud of your accomplishment. Embrace the positive changes that come with your new home, even if it means adjusting to a different view or surroundings. It took me a while to truly believe I got my dream flat. Mainly, because I was rejected first, while I gave it my all and had everything ready. Luckily I was the second option as the first option didn’t have all the references ready. So I know first-hand it will be a stressful period with lots of disappointments, a lot of crying, but wake up every day with positive vibes and do your best again. At some point, a landlord will see why they should pick you as you are most likely a good tenant, pay rent every month and want to make the flat your home and takes care of it. Trust the process. I believe you will find the dream flat if you haven’t already.

I must have seen at least more than fifteen flats ALL OVER LONDON and submitted an offer on four. Including the one that rejected me first and later on got the flat. Try to focus on your non-negotiables and find flats aligned with your requirements. You will save precious time viewing flats, you already know you don’t want. Another thing, I forgot to mention is that I never overbid the offer. I went for the asking price each time because I don’t think it is fair to ask more than the asking price [or even worth it], but you will lose some options if you don’t do it. Keep that in mind!

I enjoy the peace, quiet, and fresh air my new residential neighbourhood offers. I am so grateful and happy I found my new flat with a good landlord and a flat to call home. I still need to pinch myself to see if it is a dream. Living alone in London is an accomplishment [by itself] and something to be proud of. Cherish the freedom and independence that come with having your own space. Once you are settled, try to save and build an emergency fund again, so you can live stress-free in London. You will be prepared and know what to do and what it costs if you need to do it all over.

Conclusion:
As you enter the final two weeks leading up to your move, focus on cancelling bills, managing finances, and preparing for the transition. By taking care of these essential tasks, you’ll ensure a smooth move and a stress-free start in your new flat. Embrace this exciting chapter in your life and enjoy the freedom and happiness that comes with finding a beautiful studio flat. Remember, with proper planning and organization, your solo move can be a liberating and fulfilling experience.

Best of luck with your move, and may your new home bring you endless joy and fulfilment!

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HELLO LONDON | THE REFINERY BANKSIDE

Hello Beautiful Souls! I was lucky to do a few team events with the office in 2022. Our team went to eat some tapas and did a lifesized monopoly, a cooking class and a Christmas Party, this blog post. [How lucky were we?] The end-of-year Christmas party started in early December 2022 at the Refinery.

The Refinery is behind Tate modern on Southwark Street. This restaurant has a beautiful open space and is perfect for team events. The Christmas menu is a set menu where you can choose your starter, main and dessert. Unfortunately, I did have a cold around this time, so the food was quite bland. From what I heard from my colleagues, it wasn’t any better for them. I think the reason is that it might have been too busy with many work events on this day. However, it was not that bad. My Christmas meal consisted of duck liver parfait and a sirloin steak [cooked perfectly] and ended with a cheese platter [I couldn’t taste any of the cheeses, unfortunately]. On the other side, the drinks were good. They had some great cocktails on the menu. It is probably a great place to have [some] drinks with colleagues, friends or even family.

The Refinery is part of Drake and Morgan, where I tried their restaurant at Kings Cross before. It is a great restaurant and location. The lunch I had here was very affordable and delicious.

 

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HELLO LONDON | THE ULTIMATE MOVING FLATS GUIDE: SOLO EDITION – PART 1

Hello Beautiful Souls! Moving flats can be a daunting task, especially when you’re doing it solo in a city as bustling as London. As a woman who has experienced the challenges of finding a place of her own in this competitive rental market, I understand the importance of being well-prepared and organized. In this two-part blog post series, I will share my personal experience and provide valuable tips to help fellow women successfully navigate the process of moving flats solo. In this first part, we will focus on the crucial preparation stage and the final two weeks leading up to the move.

Setting Your Budget and Non-Negotiables:
Before embarking on your flat hunt, it’s essential to establish a clear budget and determine your non-negotiable requirements. Consider factors such as your preferred rental price range, desirable amenities, neighbourhood safety, proximity to public transportation, and personal preferences like having ample natural light or a separate kitchen. By having these criteria defined, you can streamline your search and save time by focusing on properties that align with your needs. The rental market changes a lot, so check your preferred type of housing to see what the average price should be.

Here are some of my non-negotiable requirements for a studio;

  • Separate kitchen. (I do not like it if the bed is in the kitchen kind of situation)
  • Lots of daylight. (preferably South facing windows, so you don’t feel like you are in a shoebox)
  • Flat has to be clean from the day of viewing, especially the bathroom. (it is just not promising if it is dirty from the beginning)
  • No old building that needs lots of maintenance. (usually landlords don’t want to invest much more, so if it is okay from the beginning, the better it will be for you)
  • Easy connection with at least a tube line and one other public transport option to Central London. (this is in case there is a strike, it will give you options)
  • Big enough for a work-from-home office.
  • If possible, storage space.
  • The neighbourhood needs to feel safe to me. (in case I come home late at night)
  • No carpet at all, wooden floors or laminate.
  • Well-isolated, double-glazed windows. (winters in London are cold, you don’t want to overspend on heating)
  • At least first floor. (I feel safer leaving a window open at night in summer when it is not ground floor)
  • At least one or two supermarkets nearby.
  • Unfurnished flat. (I want to make the flat my own and not feel like I live in someone else’s home)
  • Needs to have white goods like stove, oven and washing machine
  • Budget around 1000 to 1100 pounds flat rent.

Depending on other factors, like how fast you need to move, so you might not get all your requirements. Just check which ones are most important to you and which ones you can compromise.

Utilizing Online Platforms: OpenRent and Flatshare:
To kickstart your flat search, online platforms like OpenRent and SpareRoom can be valuable resources. OpenRent allows you to rent directly from landlords, while SpareRoom provides options for shared accommodations, including studio flats. While both platforms have their merits, I primarily utilized OpenRent due to its familiarity and my desire for a place of my own. Keep in mind that studio flats on SpareRoom and OpenRent tend to be in high demand and get snapped up quickly, so act promptly, if you find something that meets your requirements. When you find a flat and want to view the property, do a pre-check.

Check online on the Met Police website or via Google search to check the safety level of the neighbourhood. It will help you to determine if it is a safe area at night when you come home late. Some neighbourhoods that felt unsafe to me are (South) Croydon, East Ham, Newham and Lewisham. There might be more, but these came up when I viewed some flats or cancelled a viewing because of the area. Have a look at this guide to see what is suitable for you if you think of a safe area. Trust your instinct and go a bit early to explore the neighbourhood before the viewing. This check helped me to decide whether to submit an offer or not.

Tips for when you view a flat:

  • Ask Questions, I just used these websites, Zoopla, Apartment Guide, and My Urban Jungle.
  • Check if the area is connected with TFL.
  • Another site for finding flats, Rightmove.
  • Submitting an offer, have your paperwork ready. This meant for me, a copy of my passport (ID), my settlement status (Code), three months of payslip, a letter from my employer, and three months’ bank statements. I had a letter from my previous landlord as well, but I did not need it in the end.
  • Set up notifications via email with Openrent and SpareRoom, so you are up to date and one of the first when something new becomes available. As soon as you like it, ask for a viewing. Don’t wait too long!

Learn From Past Experiences, Choosing Solo Living Over Flat Sharing:
Having had both positive and negative experiences with flat sharing, I decided to prioritize finding a place for myself. Sharing a flat with someone unknown can be a gamble, especially if you differ in values and expectations. If you do choose to share, consider opting for someone you know and trust. However, living solo provides a sense of freedom and allows you to create a space that reflects your style and preferences. I wanted to have a place that I call home. This will be the first time in a while that I feel at home again, even if it means moving out of central London. My well-being is as important as the feeling of freedom for me, so I choose to find something within my budget outside of Central London. (Not going to lie, the first week was tough, not seeing the beautiful St.Pauls Cathedral and the Shard nearby, but I get so much in return and peace of mind) Plus, if it is one of your requirements, it should be an easy connection to Central.

Preparing for the Move: Decluttering and Cleaning:
To start fresh in your new flat, declutter and clean the belongings you plan to bring with you. Donate, discard, or sell items that no longer serve you, and embrace the opportunity to curate your living space intentionally. By doing this, you’ll not only reduce unnecessary baggage but also make room for new furniture and belongings that resonate with your vision. ReDonate is a charity that picks up boxes to donate from your home. Go to their website and see what they collect and arrange a collection of your old stuff. I gave away a massive box with clothes and kitchen supplies. It is easy to arrange a collection of your old stuff online. They were picked up at the collection date with no hassle. To be honest, I wanted to start fresh and not bring any old memories of the last two flats. I sold some furniture on Gumtree, gave away some and threw away old things. If this is something you like to do as well, budget this separately, so you can purchase furniture as soon as you move in.

Moving Supplies and Hiring Professional Movers:
Invest in the right moving supplies, such as good-sized boxes, bubble wrap, and garment boxes for your clothes. I bought all of these on Amazon. Start as soon as you know you are moving out. It gives you a window to order extra boxes when needed. Prioritize the safety of fragile items by wrapping them carefully.

Additionally, label cables and keep them separate to make setting up electronics easier in your new home. Hiring professional movers can be a game-changer, saving you both stress and time. Consider the cost of movers as an investment in a hassle-free moving experience. I am so happy I did hire movers for the moving date. It was stress-free and cost me 265 pounds for all my boxes without heavy furniture. The company I went for and did a great job is Movivan.

These are the moving supplies I bought from Amazon:

  • Laundry Bags for random items that don’t need to be packed carefully. Also handy for bedding on the day of moving.
  • Plenty of boxing tape
  • A scissor (have at least one)
  • An airbed for the first few days in the new flat if you haven’t got a bed yet. You can use it for a guest as well in the future.
  • Storage bags for clothes, to have your clothes, winter and summer, organised and linen, towels. It will make it easier to find anything back once you are in the new flat.
  • Garment boxes to hang clothes. This was amazing, all my hung clothes could fit in 3x boxes.
  • A mattress cover, because I have my mattress and wanted to bring it with me to the new flat.
  • Bubblewrap for all fragile things, monitors, tv. I bought this wrap and used it all.
  • Moving boxes. They were medium-sized, but 15x were okay for me.

Conclusion:
Moving flats solo in London may seem like a daunting task (I know, it was stressful the first few weeks), but with proper planning and organization, it can be a smooth and rewarding process. In this first part of our blog post series, we discussed the importance of defining your budget and non-negotiables, utilizing online platforms for your flat search, learning from past experiences, decluttering and cleaning, and preparing for the move with the right supplies and professional help. Start as soon as you know the moving date. By implementing these strategies, you’ll be well on your way to finding the perfect place to call home and if you have to do it like me, all solo.

Stay tuned for Part 2, where we’ll cover the final two weeks leading up to the move, ensuring a stress-free and successful transition.

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